One-On-One Services
Consulting, Coaching, Mentoring & Strategist

My Main Goal
Help you find the fastest and easiest way to bring love, romance, connection and
balance in your life, while being grateful and celebrating every day of YOUR life.

Here are the services I offer

Uncover your your inner game

Brainstorm & Mastermind Session

Coaching

Dinner & a Strategy

Results vs Excuses Session

Here is an explanation of how I will approach working with you.

Consulting

The word consult means to seek advice or information. A consultant is one who seeks information and gives advice. So why should you pay me to seek information? As your consultant, my first goal is to give you a different view of you and your life. If you are currently in a relationship or single and wanting a relationship, I will look at you and your current situation from “outside the box.” Using the information I collect, I will be able to give you a different picture of where you are in regards to love and connection in your life. This information can then be used to find different ways of achieving your desired results with less stress and effort.

Consulting is a relationship diagnostic test.

Coaching

The first thing asked of me when I say I am a coach is, "What sport do you coach?" Like a sports coach, I coach people to bring out their best. A coach doesn't so much teach as show you how to use what skills you have more productively. In a coaching relationship, together we will find out what you want and then I will ask you questions to help YOU find the answers.

I also want to share with you ways to use your strengths better. Then I will help you see and understand your weaknesses so we can find ways in which they will not slow down your progress to success, love and happiness. The thing is you already know how to find love and connection. The problem is, most times you can't see the answer even when it is right in front of you. I will help you see the answers more clearly.

Coaching is where we pull the answers out of you. Coaching is your relationship tune-up.

Mentoring

Whether you are looking for your soul mate or to bring more love into the relationship, from my 50 plus years of experience in life, love and business, I will give advice and suggestions on what actions I feel you should take in achieving your desired goal. My goal is to help you learn not only from my success but also from my mistakes. While any advice I give is only my opinion, it will come from a knowledgeable and experienced background. There is no reason you should repeat the same mistakes I made.

Mentoring is like having a guide that has traveled a path similar to yours.

Strategist

Whether you are looking for your soul mate or to bring more love into the relationship, from my 50 plus years of experience in life, love and business, I will give advice and suggestions on what actions I feel you should take in achieving your desired goal. My goal is to help you learn not only from my success but also from my mistakes. While any advice I give is only my opinion, it will come from a knowledgeable and experienced background. There is no reason you should repeat the same mistakes I made.

Strategist is someone who will help you find different paths when you think your lost or when you think you took the wrong fork in the road.

You get all of the above in one package with coaching.

 

Why coaching is important

My wife and I love to watch Mixed Martial Arts fights. On January 11, 2007, there was a match for the UFC (Ultimate Fighting Championship) middleweight title in Las Vegas, NV. To make a long story short, the challenger weighed in 2½ lbs. over weight, which made the fight a non-title match and cost the challenger 20% of the money he was to have received for the fight.

Listen to what host of television's Fear Factor and UFC commentator Joe Rogan has to say about coaching. (Click twice)

Here is a longer version which includes what the competitor had to say about his missing weight and Joe Rogan's comments. (Click twice)

Your life is just as important to you as any championship fight.
You are a champion and you are fighting for a life you deserve.
Both Tiger Woods and Michael Jordon utilize personal coaches.
Doesn't it make sense for you to train and have a coach in your life?

I am committed to YOUR excellence.
I only work with clients who DECIDE to COMMIT to success.
Deep down, I believe everyone has what it takes to get anything they want.
The question is, do YOU believe it too?

Try this

Put your arms straight out to your side. In your right hand imagine everything you want in life. Now in your left hand imagine everything you don’t want in life, all the problems and things that are bothering you - bills mounting up, bad drivers, angry friends and family, your computer crashing, all those situations that make you mad and frustrated with life. As you are focused on your left hand and all the problems you are thinking about, have you forgotten about all the good things in your right hand? Are you so busy focusing on your left hand that you are letting all the great and wonderful things in your right hand just slip away?

As your coach and teammate, I will show you a different view of the world and help you to focus more on what you want in life. Using my real life experiences and what I have learned over the years, we will do what it takes to get you focused on all the wonderful things in your right hand and in your life. The reality is, the less time you focus on the negative things in life, the more time you have to move towards the good things in life.

Here are some areas you can think about in your life and we can work on during your coaching sessions:
Finding your soul mate
Improving upon an already great relationship
Finding ways to have more free time and fun with your soul mate
Ending conflicts in your current relationship
Putting past pains and traumatic memories behind you which are holding your back in life
Becoming friends again with your partner
Creating more passion in your life
Improving your health
Waking up everyday being grateful and loving yourself and life

My Coaching Program works like this

Depending on your problems or situations, most can be dealt with in one to four sessions. If I feel a situation or project will take longer I will let you know before we begin our first session. I have designed my coaching program not to become a dependency. I want to give you tools and strategies to quickly create a life on your own. I am merely here to give you guidance on this part of your journey. I'm not here to carry you the entire distance.

Once you register you will be sent emails for the week leading up to our first call. During this time, you will be asked questions and asked to follow some guidelines to get you ready to move forward.

Before each call any notes I have from our past communications are reviewed, so I can be up-to-date and ready to give you my full attention.

Near the end of each call you will then be given a task to do during the following week. Many are time-based and MUST be completed by the given time. Not meeting these deadlines has consequences, just as in life.

After each call I will be debriefing my notes of our call and then take notes for our next call.

Show me you are ready and I will commit to your excellence.
I look forward to speaking with you.

 

Here are the services I offer

 

Uncover your your inner game

The best place to start is with a free, exploratory session. During this 30-minute session we will dig deep to find out what you are passionate about and what you want from a relationship. Even if you feel you no longer have any passion for life, together we will find at least one spark. We’ll then find out what is keeping you from pursuing that passion and relationship. Next I'll show you strategies to ignite your passion. Thich is the starting point of creating the relationship you desire, because when you can clearly see 1) your passion in life and 2) what you want in a relationship, you will understand how these are the catalysts that will move you into a synergetic relationship. Our call will end with my giving you a simple strategy to move you towards your newly found dreams.

FREE 30 - minute phone session

To schedule your free exploratory session
or
if you have any questions please contact me
via email: doug@doughark.com
or
call me at 916-524-4147

 

Brainstorm & Mastermind Session

Want an opinion, input or view from outside your box / self / relationship?

A one-on-one session where you can ask questions about anything you want. This is not a therapy session. While it is important to know the source of the conflict, the goal of this session is to give you feedback and develop a useful strategy that will move you forward in your quest to create a Synergetic Soul Mate connection.

Part of what makes this session so powerful is the fact that I will give you a view of your questions or ideas from outside the box. While I will give input which may aid in your finding an answer, in the end it is up to you to come to your own conclusions and find your own answers. I’m here only to guide you and suggest alternatives and strategies. If you come to this session with an open mind and do not look to me to answer your questions for you, together we can come up with alternatives and strategies to find what you're looking for or, in the alternative, a place for you to continue your quest in search of your answer. My motto has always been two heads are better than one when it comes to finding answers.

60 - minute phone session
$75.00 per session

If you have any questions or are ready to set up an appointment,
please contact me via email: doug@doughark.com

 

Coaching

Coaching is when you have a larger issue to tackle which may require more than just one session to find the appropriate solution. Coaching sessions consist of time we spend together as well as time I spend after our call debriefing what we went over and taking notes for our next session. Before our next call, I will review these notes in order to be fully prepared for our call. Part of what makes these sessions so powerful is the fact that we will come up with not only solutions to your situations, but also go deeper to find out the true nature of the situation and leave you with new strategies, if needed, to tackle what you are seeking.

1 Month - 4 weekly one hour phone sessions
$275.00 per month

3 Months - 12 weekly one hour phone sessions
$600.00 for 3 months

 

If you have any questions or are ready to set up an appointment,
please contact me via email: doug@doughark.com

 

Dinner (or Lunch) & a Strategy

Have you hit a wall or want some hands-on help in any of the following areas?

Are you single and looking for that special person?

Are you a couple newly in love or engaged to be married and you would like to get things started off on the right foot?

Are you in a great relationship, but you want to bring in more love, excitement, passion and fun.
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Are you in a relationship that is in a rut and/or you both have lost the passion that brought you together?

Are you in a relationship full of conflict?

Let's go to Dinner!
First we will enjoy a meal together in a local restaurant where we will spend some time getting to know each other in a relaxed environment. How we spend our time after dinner will depend on your current situation. Some of the above situations can be dealt with on the spot or we can go to a more relaxed, private location where we go more into detail about the results you are desiring. Other situations will require me to spend a few moments talking with each of you separately before we all come together to discuss and uncover the core issue of the conflict, roadblock or rut in your relationship.

At the conclusion of our session we will have accomplished the following:
You will have a clear understand for the underlying reason behind your conflict, roadblock or rut.
Together we will create a clear picture of where you are right now in your relationship.
Together we will create an agreement on what you want your relationship to be based on what you want from your relationship.
You will leave with a new strategy to work through the roadblock presented during this session.

At the conclusion of our session we will have accomplished the following:
You will have a clear understand for the underlying reason behind your conflict, roadblock or rut.
Together we will create a clear picture of where you are right now in the area of relationship.
Together we will create an agreement on what you want your relationship to be based on and what you want from your relationship.
You will leave with a new strategy to work through the roadblock presented during this session.

Prices are based on what results you are looking for and are as followed:
60 - 90 minutes - dinner date at a local (Sacramento area) restaurant chosen from a provided list.
2 hour Post Dinner consultation & strategy session.*
$199.00 per 2 hour session, plus all costs of our dinner*

If more time is needed:
It will be your decision and billed at that time at $75.00 per hour.
Depending on the situation, I believe we can work through many situations in the 2 hour post session.

If you have any questions or are ready to set up an appointment,
please contact me via email: doug@doughark.com

 

 

Results vs Excuses Session

Do you have a phobia, belief or habit you want to change that may be interfering with your relationship? Are you stuck on something in your life? Many times we become stuck in life because of some belief we have about life and ourselves. Send me an e-mail about what is challenging you and I will send you information and prices.

No challenge is too big for you to overcome.
What would it be worth to achieve your dreams?
What would it be worth to stop smoking?
Are you afraid of heights or roller coasters?
Is there a food or drink you like but wish you didn't?
Do you want more confidence?

I can help you with these issues too, guaranteed.**

I coach from my heart.

We will get results, I don't accept excuses.

If you have any questions or are ready to set up an appointment,
please contact me via email: doug@doughark.com

Consulting and Coaching comes with my personal guarantee. If you are not happy with my sessions and feel it isn't right for you, I don't feel you should pay for it and I will refund your money. I believe in and stand behind everything I offer.

If a recording of your session is offered, it is a bonus to the package and is not included as part of the purchase price. Although every precaution will be taken to ensure a copy of our call is properly recorded and delivered to you, due to the nature of computers and recording devices, Doug Hark will not be held responsible for defective or undeliverable recordings. In the event a recording cannot be delivered, no refund of the purchase price will be given.

* Dinner & a Strategy:
Cost of dinner is excluded from the money back guarantee and desire for a refund must be clearly expressed within the first hour of our Post Dinner consultation & strategy session.

** Results vs Excuses Session:
Excluded from money back guarantee. My goal is to work with you until your results are achieved.